When Seekers Are Hard to Help: leaderboard

Emotional Support Dialogue Systems (ESDSes) are increasingly evaluated and trained with LLM-simulated seekers. However, such simulated seekers often behave as cooperative, average-case users who disclose clearly, respond constructively, and accept support within a few turns. This can lead to overly optimistic evaluation and obscure whether ESDSes can handle difficult help-seeking interactions. In

Metric: DEU (Deep Emotional Understanding) (self-reported). Source: benchmarklist.com. Saturation forecast: Around April 2027. 17 models tracked.

Top models

#ModelScoreOverall rank
1GPT-5.42.92#79
2GPT-4o1.76#343
3Qwen 3 8B1.76#674
4Qwen 3 4B1.74#829

No result here: #3 Claude Opus 5.5, #6 GPT-6 Astra, #7 GPT-6.1 Sol.

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